An Empath’s Guide to Narcissists: Course

The purpose of this eCourse is to examine the interplay between empaths and narcissists and disentangle shared energetic threads between them.

boundaries, empath, narcissistIt is written by an empath for empaths, especially those whose earliest experiences and subsequent personal relationships have involved narcissists. This is not meant to paint a picture of the empath as victim or the narcissist as monster.

The course has come about after many years of experience with this dynamic in my own life. It started with being raised in a household with a narcissistic mother, and engaging in further intimate relationships with narcissists.

Ten years ago, I fell apart. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. At the time, I began to see where old patterning, stories and beliefs had over-written my own sense of knowing in the world. I saw where I was making choices based on false principles, instilled by shame, lack and fear. Since then, I’ve been doggedly pursuing the deeper truth and learning to engage with the world in different ways.

In 2015, I embarked on a pilgrimage across half of France. It was during that walk that the course first came to me, with clarity and on waves of love. It has since been expanded and re-designed, to incorporate more one-on-one mentoring and deeper exploration of the topics.

An Empath’s Guide to Narcissists

I firmly believe that by naming and acknowledging the patterns of behaviour we’re drawn to and repelled by, we turn the mirror on ourselves, which leads to self-knowledge and self-actualization.

In a futile attempt to erase our past, we deprive the community of our healing gift. If we conceal our wounds out of fear and shame, our inner darkness can neither be illuminated nor become a light for others. ~ Brennan Manning, Abba’s Child, The Cry of the Heart for Intimate Belonging

The course is designed to help develop a deeper sense of understanding around the dynamic involved, as well as to encourage empaths to continue working towards personal responsibility and creating strong, healthy boundaries and a clear sense of Self. These are vital in all relationships and, especially after having been involved with narcissists, can feel very uncertain.

We will examine the question ‘Am I the narcissist?’ which frequently arises in empaths’ explorations of their interactions with narcissists. Because the two are so closely tied (they are energetic mirrors), it is inevitable and natural to question this in yourself. It’s also healthy and a pretty good indication that you’re NOT a narcissist, if you’re truly willing to face and explore the possibility. It’s a very responsible thing, to question and examine your own energy in this way.

We will also look at the gifts that result from these connections, because there are absolutely gifts, although it can feel like anything but in the aftermath of a relationship with a narcissist. You are no doubt an even more sensitive empath as a result of your interactions with narcissists, which will change the way you relate, to yourself and others.

Healing the Darkness Within

How can I be substantial if I do not cast a shadow? I must have a dark side also if I am to be whole. ~ C.G. Jung

Narcissists are not evil by nature, they are severely wounded individuals trapped in dissociation from deep early wounds. As empaths, we have a natural tendency towards immense compassion and empathy and a desire to heal. When our wounds are triggered by these relationships, we have an opportunity to deeply heal.

By doing this on an individual level, we contribute to the rebalancing of collective energies and clear away these old patterns which have caused distortions through time and space. As one Hermetic Principle states, ‘As within, so without.’ We are making way for new ways of relating and being in the world.

The course is outstanding, long overdue, and helpful in the extreme! It is very clear that is was divinely inspired. You have been such a gift to my life! I believe with all of my heart, that you have just saved the lives and minds of every empath that will come into contact with this course.

I loved, loved the exercise on boundaries and compliments [and] the humor you drop like little chocolates through the whole course.

I would recommend that people print these lessons out and put them in a binder, then put a periodic date in their calendars to review the whole course.

Thank you, Sweet One!
~ Sharon Aven Rawson: Touch of the Goddess

Course Breakdown:

The course consists of five modules, available as units in themselves or as a whole.

This course is for you if:

  •  you identify as an empath
  •  you’re comfortable combining energy, spiritual concepts and intuitive processes with grounded and practical knowledge in your healing
  •  you have been in repeated relationships with narcissists, including family, friends, romantic, or business relationships
  •  you’re ready to dig deep and heal the patterning in you that makes this dynamic attractive or active in your energy field
  •  you’re ready and willing to be honest with yourself and to take 100% responsibility for your healing and your life
  •  you’re ready and able to sit with the discomfort that healing brings, and allow for old ways of being to be examined in the light
  •  you’re willing to make yourself a priority, possibly for the first time in your life

My job is to hold space for your expansion with gentleness and compassion, guiding and encouraging you to take steps that feel aligned with your heart and spirit. I understand this journey and I promise to stand beside you as you move into deeper self-awareness and more fulfilling relationships (with yourself first). A benefit of this process is that we all grow together as we reflect for one another shifts and transformations as we learn.

Why Work with Me?

I am an intuitive empath with 4 decades of experience with narcissistic abuse. I understand the deep, hidden struggles of facing the world from that perspective. I’ve also had the opportunity to explore the dynamic from the collective perspective, through my intuitive channel and connection with the Earth. My Master’s degrees in both Social Anthropology and in Human and Behavioural Sciences have given me many tools in critical thinking, writing and analysis. I use all these aspects in the work I do, bringing the intuitive information through in a way that is grounded and practical. I am committed to constantly improving my relationship with myself, my business, my family and friends and the world around me.

* The information presented in this eCourse is not scientific or medical. It is based primarily on intuitive and empirical examination of the patterns around narcissistic relationships from my own experience as an empath, and provides links and resources from various relevant sources. *

Each module costs £89 GBP or you can purchase the whole course for £359 GBP (installment payments available). Each module is designed to take approximately two weeks, which includes the coursework, exercises, email contact and two 30-minute mentoring sessions. The coursework will take approximately half an hour per day.

(Please use the yin-yang buttons below to purchase the modules separately.)

Module I:

narcissists, empaths, yin yangIncludes: materials in print and video format, including information, definitions, and exercises; email support; and 1-to-1 mentoring each week.
~ Untangling the Dynamic: How do the two energies coincide? Why are they drawn to one another? How and why are they compatible?
~ Self-intimacy: an empathic balancing act; playing with boundaries (Part I); and playing with boundaries (Part II)

Module II:

narcissists, empaths, yin yangIncludes: materials in print and video format, including insights, definitions, and exercises; email support; and 1-to-1 mentoring each week.
~ You’re not crazy! These experiences are very real. Defining and understanding trauma bonding
~ Self-intimacy: Do I really Love me?; and An Exercise in Self-love
~ Trust, patience, and the return to innocence
~ Exercises in self-trust

Module III:

narcissists, empaths, yin yangIncludes: materials in print and video format, including insights, definitions, and exercises; email support; and 1-to-1 mentoring each week.
~ Exploring Responsibility
~ An Exercise in Responsibility
~ Stepping into Personal Responsibility in all your Relationships
~ An Exercise in Responsibility and Accountability

Module IV:

narcissists, empaths, yin yangIncludes: materials in print and video format, including insights, definitions, and exercises; email support; and 1-to-1 mentoring each week.
~ Am I the narcissist? – exploring this question is one way to understand the dynamic more deeply
~ An Exercise on Narcissism
~ Toxic Shame – its roots; its effects on your choices, behaviour, etc
~ Role-playing: narcissist for a day

Module V:

narcissists, empathsIncludes: materials in print and video format, including insights, definitions, and exercises; email support; and 1-t0-1 mentoring each week.
~ The Gifts in the Connection – what did you gain from the experience?
~ An Exercise in Finding the Gifts
~ You as an Autonomous, Self-Contained Being
~ Putting your Sensitivity to Work in the World

Full Course:

~ all 5 modules, designed to take approximately 10 weeks.
~ 5 mentoring sessions to be used through the course and a further session at the conclusion of the course, for a total of six.
Save £86 GBP when you buy the whole course. (Installment plan is available.)

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